I broke out my notebook this morning and opened up to my 2018 goals and mantras page. How have I already forgotten so many of them? Why have I been so ungrateful when one of my few goals was to take time to be thankful? Why do I keep trying to do things in my […]

Two Goals for Today

So much of my life looks like me trying to do something that I think will be good or helpful  and proceeding to make things more difficult. (Like last week when I hit the garage door opener right after Mark had hit it. I thought I had opened it… when really I had closed it. […]

Nanny Diary

It has been a while since I loved a non-Marvel, non-comedy movie. I tend to know what I like and stick with that. For movies that means it’s either superheroes, comedies, or old classics. I saw a trailer for ‘The Greatest Showman” a few months ago and I told Xav that I wanted to see […]

Why You Should See ‘The Greatest Showman’

Welp here goes nothing! It’s been 9 months since I last posted on my blog… 17 drafts have come and gone since then as I have been attempting to figure out what to post that I will want to go back and read later. I share most of my blog type posts over on Instagram […]

2017

I’ve been waiting for something to say, but there are no “right” words that have come to me to explain the heartbreak, doubts and immense number of questions that have messed with my mind for over two weeks. Norm said in his sermon what I’ve battled with in my heart… when we face a tragedy, […]

Broken

With the dawn of a new year, many people are ready for a “new you”…. or them. or me. or whatever they are saying about changing themselves into something new! Even though it is only the 9th day of the new year, I already have my new body. It is perfect and it arrived on […]

New Year New Body

Michigan winters are long. Even without snow, the gray skies and the chilly air make it feel ridiculously long. There have been a few days lately where I’ve been in a weird mood and it has been hard to pull out of it. One of the first things I read yesterday morning was an article […]

Bye Bye Bad Mood

Have you ever felt scattered and unable to focus? I currently have five projects open on my desk (not ideal or most productive way to do things, but like I said I can’t focus… so I keep hopping from one to the next). In between my pile jumping, I get distracted by thoughts of other projects I […]

22 goals for my 23rd year

After almost a year of marriage, I’ve spent some time lately thinking about our relationship and thanking God for sustaining us. So many deep hurts, harsh words, jealous thoughts and lengthy arguments were avoided this year because of God’s grace in both of our lives, but especially in Xavier’s tender heart. I was going to […]

Do Opposites Attract?

A blog post popped up on my Facebook feed last week about Fauxtographers and how everyone starts in a position of being a copycat photographer – simply copying everything that they see others doing until eventually they develop their own authentic style and graduate to the level where they become professionals. I think it is a fairly common […]

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